A friend’s 40th birthday has caused me to reflect on what was happening in my life 40 years ago and led me to ask “Why have I been given so much?” in October 1975, I was just 37 and a month into a new teaching post. That in itself seems, and in many ways was, unremarkable. For me, however, it was a Resurrection experience, although, to my shame, I did not recognise it as such at the time. I had been officially unemployed for 5 months, prior to taking up this post, but I had not worked since having a breakdown half way through my first term at my last school. The previous eleven months had, therefore, been very dark, even darker, perhaps, than the previous 7 years during which I had felt so lost. During those eleven months, I had all but given up hope.
I had started to look for work when my previous contract expired. It was a time when teaching posts were scarce, and I would have taken almost anything as long it was work. I went through what so many others were and are still experiencing. I submitted applications and received no replies. I could still be on the books of one Catholic school where, when I visited, I was told they would be in touch. I am still waiting.
It must have been in June that I was interviewed for a post which seemed like a last ditch stand. I was highly unsuitable for it and, inevitably, was turned down. On the evening of the same day, a school friend phoned to ask how I had fared. When I told her she said: “The Blind School is looking for an RE Teacher”. RE was my speciality. Next day I telephoned St Vincent’s, and, not only did it need an RE teacher for September, it also needed someone to teach French. I could do both. I had an informal interview with the headmistress to whom I told the whole story of what had happened at my last school, which was largely connected to the way the head teacher operated. Not wishing to besmirch this person’s character, I had not been able to speak of this before, but Sr Clare knew the woman in question and understood. After a tour of the school, I really wanted to work there. Sr Clare spoke to people who knew me warts and all and I was taken on in a six month trial. I retired from that school twenty years later.
Although it would be another five years before my life and I clearly began to change, this event, I believe, made that change possible and I can not but believe, also, that the hand of God was in it. In 1980, I was reciting the canticle from Deuteronomy 32, vv 10-12. (I have changed the masculine pronouns.) “In a desert land God found her, in a barren and howling waste. He shielded her and cared for her; he guarded her as the apple of God’s eye, like an eagle that stirs up its nest an hovers over its young, that spread its wings to catch them, and carries them on its pinions. The Lord alone led her; no foreign god was with her.” Those words must have resonated with something deep inside me that I had not named until then. The Word Of God penetrated me and touched my experience and, after far too many years not really believing it, I knew that God did, indeed, love me.
As I write and remember these events, I am embarrassed. How could I have continued to doubt God’s love after the hand of God being so clearly there in 1975? I’m afraid I simply did not make the connection. These days I can see that hand in so many things which have happened in my life which have saved me in so many ways. It always comes quietly. It doesn’t make a fuss. I am aware of other people, loved by God every bit as much as I am, but who still seem trapped in the way I used to be. Why has God freed me?
In my 30s and into my early 40s, I would run around listening to, reading the books of and even meeting many spiritual gurus. I’m sure these experiences were not wasted, but God truly is in the gentle breeze, in the ordinary. I don’t have to go anywhere or do anything special to be touched by God. I certainly can’t take pride in anything which has happened in my life. It has all been pure gift even, I now recognise the deeply dark times when I nearly gave up. They have helped me to appreciate the light and the how gratuitous is God’s love and protection. By experiencing my own nothingness and powerlessness, I have met the greatness of God.